1. You’ve had to struggle. Struggle makes people grow in strength, wisdom and compassion. When we are happy, we can relax. You’ve had to constantly work. You are a better person for that, and incredibly strong because of it.
2. You’ve had to deal with stigma, misconceptions, ignorance, and your well-meaning friend that keeps telling you her cousin Mary cured her depression with yoga. You’ve opened up to someone about your mental illness and they’ve changed the subject because they’re not able to hear it. You’ve had to deal with a lot of total crap and that takes strength.
3. You’ve had to deal with a double standard. Joe Jenkins broken his leg and he’s so brave. Everyone is bringing him flowers, signing his cast, and making him apple pie. You broke your brain and everyone is ignoring you. You are strong, dude.
4. You’ve had to keep showing up. Showing up to waiting rooms and reading magazines from 1996, showing up to tell your story for the millionth time, showing up to groups, therapy, doctors, psychiatrists… It’s strong to show up.
5.You’ve had to carry your intense emotions, other people’s emotions, and perhaps the world on your shoulders as well. You’re empathetic. It’s way easier not to care. You’ve sat with people with mental illness and listened, when others have turned away because they are afraid of vulnerable emotions and real conversations. You care and that takes strength.
6. You’ve had to figure out treatment which can feel like endless trial and error. You can’t just put a cast on your brain. There’s not one magical therapy method or pill. You’ve tried acupuncture, exercise, affirmations, “I feel great… kind of.. errr…” talking about your dog fluffy running away when you were 6, CBT, DBT, and other latest-acronym-therapies. It takes strength to keep trying to figure out a treatment plan that works.
Those are my ideas for the day! I’d love you hear yours about why people who have mental illness are strong, NOT weak! Thanks for reading!
Xo Rachel
I absolutely love this. Sharing this everywhere! So much truth in your words that people really need to become more aware of. Well done.
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Thanks so much, Emily! Really appreciate! So glad it resonated w you! Muah!!!!
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Absolutely true ,don’t be ashamed of depression its like any other ailment and we should face it and come over it bravely
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Definitely!
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Thank you Rachel… for opening my eyes ^^
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No problem! Thanks so much for checking it out! 🙂
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In India, People don’t make much of Mental Illness, and they just Ignore those with it. Which is a Sad thing, of course. Also, it is Sad that Today’s India is not like the one of Old, where Concern was a By-Word.
But I don’t want to write about India. It is about Mental Illness.
In my opinion, Only a Person who uses his Brain a lot, (even though he might be a Blue collar worker), can have Mental Illness.
A Newly Bought Racing Car might be ‘Tested’ before entering a race, but one that has run a few times will be Plenty Worn Out! 🙂
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So true!
Your blog is full of wisdom, Rachie!
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Omg! Thanks so much! 😍😍😍
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Loving yours, too! 👍🏼👍🏼💜💜👌🏾👌🏾
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You are so awesome Rachel! Thank you for becoming a follower. You speak my language. You inspire me! I am so thrilled that you would follow …ME!
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So happy to! 😊☺️😍😊☺️😍 God bless you!
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it takes strenght to live and thrive,
it takes strenght to fight a course and though the harsh challenges,
to keep fighting!
so i totally agree with you!
lovely post.
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You’re so poetic! Maybe you should write a full poem about this! Much love!!
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thank you so much! i’l work on that asap.
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Ps your blog is beautiful and inspiring! 😇😇😇
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Thank you very much. Yours is spectacular! i love the look and content
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So happy we’ve connected!
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that’s the most important thing! i’m most privileged!
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💛💜💚 soul sisters!
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now, i totally wish i could express my response with smileys! thanks all the same. muah!
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😻😻😻
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😊😊😊
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please how do you add smileys to your posts i’ve looking for a way around this since ever, and its getting frustrating, help!
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i was actually hoping for a response please
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Yes! Sorry! I just woke up! Lol!! Was going to respond later… So do you have an iPhone? I actually do the smiley faces and hearts and stuff through the emoji on my iPhone. I’m not sure how to do them on a computer either! Sorry!! Maybe there is an app that works on computer that you can download! Xo
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ouch! I use my computer, no p.alright thanks a lot!
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Hopefully you got my other response ! It’s from my iPhone! I use a wordpress app on my iPhone sometimes and that is the only way I know how to do the “emoji” I’m not sure if it works on a computer! Xo
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yes i did get it. thanks a lot. i’l try to see how i could get it done on a computer. thanks again!
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Rachel,
First, thanks for following my blog. As you probably now know, I struggle with anxiety. So many people think that those of us who struggle with mental health issues are weak, but in reality, we are quite strong. It may not always seem like it to others and ourselves, but it takes a lot of strength to keep trying to do things when we don’t always feel like we can, to deal with others treating us poorly, and to continue to try to stay positive when dealing with our struggles. Thank you so much for writing this post! It’s a great reminder!
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Your blog is so awesome! I’ve read a few of your posts but I want to go back and read them more tonight!! I also have anxiety, so I’m so glad your blog exists! Thanks so much for your kind words! 🙂 I love your writing, too!
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Thank you so much for the kind comment! I’m so happy you enjoy my blog! 🙂
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Please take the time to read this great post by WEHAVEAPPLES!
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Thanks so much! 💚💜💚💜💚
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As a psychology graduate, I can attest to the statement that people who struggle from a certain mental condition are not weak. It’s how you deal with it that matters. 🙂
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Thanks so much, Maria! That means a lot! 💖
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A Brilliant post!!!!
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Aw thanks !!! 💕💕💕
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Thanks so much for sharing! 💙
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I’ve nominated you for “The Very Encouraging Blogger Award”! Please click here for details: https://gettingthroughanxiety.wordpress.com/2015/08/15/the-very-encouraging-blogger-award/
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Oh my gosh! I’m so honored.. Thank-you!!!
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You’re very welcome. By the way, I think what you’re doing with both your blog and the musical is great!
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Thanks SO much! 😊😊😊
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Thank you for this very TRUE and wonderful article! You’re right, and I’ve already shared this with my friends and family! All the best to you and blessings! 🙂
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Thanks SO much and I’m so glad you agree and it resonated! Warriors!!!
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Reblogged this on Suicide Awareness – I beat suicide.
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